The Opposite of Disappointment   7 comments

Well, it is official.  We found out this last week that the pilot Cody auditioned for, Prodigy Bully, did not get picked up to series.  Surprisingly we are not too disappointed – except for the fact that we won’t get to work daily with such a great cast and crew.  I’ve had a couple of people make comments about how “heart-breaking” this must be for us, but it’s not—at least not for us.  This is a part of the business, and we are fully aware that in filming a pilot it may not be picked up to series.  The old adage “smile because it happened, don’t cry because it’s over” holds true here.

On set of Prodigy Bully

The positives I see in this;

1.   We made many new friends that I am sure we’ll have the opportunity to see again.  Some we shared contact info and we’ll still keep in touch.

2.   I still got feedback that my son did fantastic, and that he is a great actor and wonderful to work with – validation from industry professionals that we must be doing something right – as parents, and as the kid/actor involved.

3.   I learned more about filling out the tax forms (even though I know this part well due to my own experience, I goofed by putting ZERO exemptions on his W-4 form.  Don’t do that.  They took 50% in taxes.  I don’t like getting large returns at the end of the year…so now I have to adjust accordingly – the plus – each job you fill out a new W-4 for the job).

4.   Because of this, he is now SAG-AFTRA Union.  He can no longer do non-union work however, I am not He learned to ride a horse!seeing a downside to this.  Being Union you are offered more protections as an actor.  I am still learning all of the benefits, and have much reading to do.  I’ve seen many breakdowns that have said “will not hire must-join, must be non-union or full union” so now there’s no concern of the “in-between stage” any more.

5.   He’s now auditioning for more pilots (while major network pilot season is Jan-Mar, all the other networks start them whenever they feel like it – year-round).

6.   He got to learn how to ride a horse for the show!

7.  He learned some basics about stunts

8.   I learned more about how the entire process works.  Each time there are new things to learn.  It seems that even each network will run things differently

9.   Auditions continue as always – which means the casting directors still think he’s good enough to bring in to audition.  This also means – there’s no time to be bummed!

                 There was another pilot, Malibu Country, that wanted him to test too. We found out over a 2-day period that both wanted him to test.  Since he tested and booked Prodigy Bully before Malibu Country did their testing, he didn’t test for them.  Well, Malibu Country got picked up…in fact, we know the kids that booked that will be playing Reba’s children.  AND, the part that he auditioned for…got cut before the pilot went to filming.  I am SO happy for the kids that booked it, and their parents, too.  I honestly think it happened to exactly the right kids.  They are great actors, and very down-to-earth kids.  Watch the show – it is hysterical – we got to watch the pilot being filmed, and if I can, I will watch every episode during filming.  *Testing means that choices are down to the last 2-4 for the parts, and contracts are signed committing to the series along with the terms.  When they go in to test, paperwork has to be signed before they are allowed in the audition room.

                Cody is continuing to audition for other projects, feature films, TV guest roles, and pilots.  Since filming Prodigy Bully he booked his first print job, as well as a new Comedy Central Show called Mash-Up.  He got to work with Pete Holmes on that one – another great experience with such a light-hearted cast and crew—but then it IS all about the comedy!  It’s not often that a person gets paid to be a goof-ball.

On set of Mash-Up with Pete Holmes

                I do have to admit, I was initially concerned that he would be upset that Prodigy Bully did not get picked up to series, but then I guess he does listen to me.  I always believe there is a reason for everything, and that this just makes room for something bigger and better even if we don’t know/see it now; apparently that attitude has rubbed off on him.  He shrugged his shoulders and said “when’s the next audition?”  Which is good, because in the next 24 hours he got THREE!

7 responses to “The Opposite of Disappointment

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  1. Good Luck Cody! This is from Samuel Dixon’s Mom, samuel was “Teddy Greszik,” and we thought the script was hilarious. Samuel had a great time, and also loved meeting new friends. Samuel says to say hi to Cody!

    • Hi Tami!
      Thank you for visiting my blog! It is nice to finally “meet” you. Samuel did such an awesome job – he’s a great kid and it was wonderful to meet him (and dad!). Cody says hi back, and hopes he and Samuel get to work together again.

  2. I am glad that I found your blog! My daughter is 8 and has musical theater experience, and has always said that she wants to be on TV. She is going to be “Annie” in “Annie Jr” in a few weeks, and we signed her up with a talent agent this summer. I am still learning a lot along the way, and we were background actors in a feature film this weekend, which was a great learning & networking experience. We’ll continue to watch this blog to follow along with Cody’s acting opportunities and wish you all the best!! Thanks so much for the great resources.

    • Hi Katie!
      Thank you for visiting my blog! Congratulations on your daughter getting to be Annie in Annie Jr. – what a wonderful experience! And also congrats on getting her a talent agent – that is key to continuing in film and television. There are SO many opportunities for child actors – something I did not realize before we began this journey. Please keep me updated! Have a wonderful weekend!

  3. Glad to have found your blog! I am a mom whose daughter decided she wanted to be an actress from the time she was in preschool. She is now living in LA as a “party fairy” on the weekends and doing environmental speeches to elementary kids during the week, auditioning and filiming, she joined SAG and does extra work. Good luck to your son! I always wanted to be a writer and I can’t imagine not supporting my child’s aspirations! I wish my parent’s had encouraged mine! Good job mom!

    • Hi Diane!
      Thank you for visiting my blog! I know it’s been a few months – we have been SO busy I haven’t had a chance to enjoy my writing as much as I’d like to!
      Congrats on your daughter’s work – environmental speeches – that is an outstanding cause – something we all need to be more aware of! Supporting our children in this industry is SUCH a whirlwind, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Great job in supporting your daughter! 🙂

  4. I totally empathize with parents of children in the entertainment industry. All 3 of my kids are now ‘in the biz’ and are loving every minute of it. But it can definitely be a struggle for some at times. So happy your son is doing well!

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